America’s Anti-Bullying School Speaker

Parent Resource Center

Anti-Bullying Resources for Parents and Caregivers

Help families listen, document concerns and work constructively with schools

Families are essential partners in bullying prevention. Productive conversations focus on what happened, what support a child needs and how home and school can work from the same information.

Overview

A Practical Part of Schoolwide Prevention

Plain-language bullying prevention guidance for parents before and after a school anti-bullying assembly, including cyberbullying and reporting conversations.

Core Priorities

Build a Stronger Bullying Prevention Plan

Use these focus areas to connect day-to-day practice with the shared message of an anti-bullying school speaker.

Listen first

Ask open questions, stay calm and thank the child for sharing before deciding what the situation should be called.

Preserve useful details

Record dates, settings and relevant messages or screenshots without repeatedly sharing harmful content.

Partner with the school

Share specific observations, ask about next steps and agree on when communication will continue.

Use Now

Parent Resource Center Practical Tools

Read, print or copy these school-ready on-page resources. Checklist progress is saved in this browser.

On-page guide

Parent Guide: What to Do When Your Child Reports Bullying

Gather information, support your child and work constructively with the school.View guide

Listen and understand

  • Listen calmly, thank your child for telling you and ask open-ended questions.
  • Avoid blame, interrogation or deciding on a label before gathering details.
  • Ask what would help your child feel safer and what they fear may happen after a report.

Record and preserve

  • Write down dates, settings, behaviors, witnesses and prior reports.
  • Save relevant messages, usernames, URLs and screenshots without redistributing harmful material.
  • Keep a simple log of school contacts, agreed actions and follow-up dates.

Partner with the school

  • Contact the teacher, counselor or administrator named in the school's reporting process.
  • Ask what procedure will be followed and develop a safety plan with the school when necessary.
  • Avoid confronting another child directly or escalating through public posts.

Continue support

  • Check in without making every conversation about the incident.
  • Watch for meaningful changes in well-being, attendance or daily functioning that may warrant support from an appropriate professional.
  • For immediate danger, follow school safety procedures and contact appropriate emergency services.

Requirements differ. Follow school and district policies and applicable state law; this is not legal or medical advice.

Interactive checklist

Parent Conversation Checklist

Questions that help a child share facts, impact and safety concerns in their own words.Open checklist

Ask gently—not as an interrogation

Video Center

Watch Related Anti-Bullying Programs

The same verified five-video library is used across the site—never duplicated or relabeled as new footage.

Action Plan

Four Practical Next Steps

Adapt these steps to school policy, student needs and the grade-specific bullying prevention program you select.

  1. Step 1

    Ask what the child wants adults to understand about the situation.

  2. Step 2

    Review privacy and blocking tools together rather than taking over silently.

  3. Step 3

    Contact the school's designated staff member with concise, factual details.

  4. Step 4

    Check in over time instead of treating one conversation as a complete solution.

Frequently Asked Questions

Questions About Parent Resource Center

How can parents support a school anti-bullying assembly?
Ask children what stood out, reinforce safe bystander and reporting choices, and use the school's stated channels when concerns arise.
What information is helpful when contacting a school?
Share concrete dates, places, behaviors, relevant digital evidence and the impact on the child. Avoid public speculation or circulating identifying content.

Bring an Anti-Bullying School Speaker to Your School

Pair these resources with a grade-specific assembly, teacher training or parent presentation built around practical bullying prevention.